Men and women are different. Our brains are wired differently. What I've noticed in my own marriage is that both of our brains work very efficiently, just in different ways. My husband is able to see logical outcomes much quicker than I can, and I am quicker to judge and react to emotional situations. 

And that's okay, most of the time…

My husband is our provider and needs to make logical decisions when it comes to his job, career changes, and finances. I, as the nurturer,  am more attuned to the needs and emotions of others. However, having our minds work so quickly in these two different directions often leads us to vastly different conclusions when looking at the same problem.

This leads to conflict, and that's okay. Setting things in order is a form of subcreation. It's only when we get angry at one another that things tend to take a turn for the worst.