My husband is a convert to Orthodoxy, and I am jealous of that fact. He and our other convert friends like to say: “Oh, you don’t know what a gem you’ve had!”

And they’re right. I didn’t.

I don’t like not knowing about my faith. A faith that people are flocking to for both its traditions and its complete uniqueness in the sea of ever ebbing Western Christianity. And it’s not as though I don’t understand how wonderful that is, but most of the time, I fail to appreciate it.

Maybe it stems from how I grew up. My father immigrated from Romania. His parents took him to church, but religious education was not their main concern. My mother was a Catholic, taken to church by her very devout grandmother, and she converted after marrying my father. Shortly after my middle sister was born, we moved away from our home church, and into a county with four Orthodox churches. All of which were within 20 minutes of our house.

Compared to most places, I grew up in an Orthodox oasis. I knew all the priests in the area. There weren’t many Orthodox Christians at school, but I was fortunate enough to know some. And all my teachers knew about Pascha, and that it usually fell on a different day than western Easter. When they asked me why, I just told them it depended on the moon and Passover.

That’s what they knew about Orthodoxy from me. Because that’s all I ever knew. I never thought to delve much further in regards to my faith. And no one ever told me to do so. Church was something that happened on Sundays, and communion was taken regularly by all, no matter how often you went to confession. Sunday school always turned in to a bland, secular lecture on morality. We talked more about how to be “good people” in the eyes of a society to which we did not conform more than we ever talked about what we believe and why we believe it. This led to me misrepresenting our faith and, in doing so, I began to take it for granted.

On the other hand, my husband grew up in a Baptist church. His church experience was more concerned with the cerebral aspect of religion. My husband can pull Bible verses out of thin air. My father-in-law knows biblical Greek. When we started dating, I felt at a loss when his family asked me questions about Orthodoxy. Every deviation from their experiences in their faith was met with a flood of biblical support and quotes from Protestant theologians. How could I expect him to want to convert if I had no knowledge of my faith, while he knew so much about his?

Fortunately, he still wanted to come to church with me. Being a protestant, he was raised to seek truth. And he wanted to learn the truth about Orthodoxy. His Baptist background, which initially drove me from him, turned out to be the biggest blessing.